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Our beliefs are the root of the pain

A parent or teacher can do tremendous damage simply by saying to a child, "You're stupid and will never amount to anything!" or "Getting a B on your report card is just not good enough!" Even though that child can grow up and graduate from Harvard, they may never feel good enough because of that lie their heart was made to believe. They may even become prideful over their degree and put others down in order to feel good. That's because in their heart, they are insecure and feel like they don't amount to much. Sadly, they will live their life trying to overcome this feeling of inadequacy.

Some of the lies that I run across in ministry might look like this:

"I'm just not good enough"

"I'm stupid"

"I'm just white trash"

"I'm worthless"

"God doesn't care about me"

"God wasn't there when I needed Him"

"My heart isn't good enough for God"

"I'm not worthy to be healed"

"God doesn't love me or He would have..."

"I'm unlovable"

These types of heart-beliefs will cause tremendous pain. They usually are believed at the scene of the accident, so to speak, when somebody first does the damage to us. Parents are often the ones to cause the damage, because children tend to look to their parents to form our sense of identity. If they say we're stupid, we must be stupid, or so our emotions (heart-beliefs) tells us. That's why somebody can be very intelligent and yet still struggle with insecurity and feel like they are never good enough. Has your mother, father, teacher, or somebody else you looked up to as a child, said something to you that has impacted how you see yourself today?

These lies that our heart believes aren't just things we are told, they can be born out of things that are done to us (abuse, trauma, abandonment, rejection, etc) or events that happen in our life (car accident, loss of a loved one, etc.). For example, rape and sexual violations have a way of shaping a person for life, but it isn't because of what happened, it's because of what we believed about what happened that keeps us in pain. Many times in ministry, it turns out that a woman who has been raped will believe things such as, "It was really my fault" and "I'll never be clean again."

There are often more than one lie that hide behind each emotion. For example, if you were molested, you likely believe more than one lie which is causing the pain that you suffer from today. You might believe that it was your fault, thereby producing feelings of guilt and condemnation. You might also believe that you will never be the same, that this has changed who you are and that you're a prostitute at heart because you allowed it to happen. In a ministry session, we might deal with the part about it being your fault, and get a measurable amount of freedom and healing in that area, but still feel dirty and shameful. That means there's simply more lies to uncover and get truth on. I like to test the true measure of freedom or healing they have received by asking something like, "On a scale of 1-10, what level would you say you still feel dirty?" This will reveal the healing that they have received, but also give you an idea that there's more to be done. They might say that they now feel complete peace there. A person who was in a car accident might suffer with panic attacks, but believe it or not, it might not just be from the car accident. They may have felt like they've done something unforgivable, and are afraid to die, and the car accident just triggered that belief, and from that point on they suffer from panic attacks. In a ministry session, they may feel the panic, although they are completely safe and what was once a threat is no longer any concern. But for some reason they still get triggered and feel panic and extreme feelings of fear, all while in their mind they know they are safe and have nothing to worry about. This is another classic example of our logical beliefs not being the same as our heart's experiential beliefs. The lies that a person's heart may believe might include things like "I am going to die" or "I am going to hell when I die."

Satan is said to be the father of lies, and when we're wounded, one of his demons are right there to inject a painful lie into our heart, which will keep us locked down to that pain for the rest of our lives (or so he hopes!). A lie believed in the heart will hold a person in life-altering bondage. Jesus made it clear that the truth is what sets us free from the bondage of a lie, and in saying this, He made it clear that a lie can bring much bondage into our lives.

"And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free."
John 8:32, KJV

Do you want to know the truth that will set you free from the tremendous bondage and pain that a lie will put you in? Uprooting those lies is something that the Holy Spirit is very eager to do for YOU (the person reading this article, in case I wasn't clear)! Jesus said that the comforter (or counselor) would come and one of His jobs was to lead us into all truth (see John 16:13). The Bible is also clear that God withholds no good thing from His children (see Psalm 84:11), so we can be absolutely certain that the Holy Spirit's desire is to lead us into the truth that will set us free. Why would God want His child to live in bondage to a lie? Then why would the Holy Spirit withhold truth from us that Jesus said to clearly He would give us?

"...when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth..."
John 16:13, KJV

We may ask God for a brand new BMW and get turned down, but when it comes to asking Him for truth on what our heart believes, this is an area we can be absolutely sure He desires to speak to us. If we aren't hearing, then there's a reason and we need to get to the bottom of it. But don't think for a minute that somehow God doesn't want to speak to you, His precious child, about something like this!

A lie believed, will FEEL true!

What feels to be true when you visit that emotion? I didn't ask you what you believe or know to be true, but what feels true? That's what your heart believes. Your emotions don't lie, they merely indicate what it is that your heart really believes. Your mind can be totally convinced and know that you are smart and a very archiving person, but you still feel stupid, worthless, or like you'll never be good enough or measure up. That's because your heart-belief is that you are not good enough for some reason. It could be rooted in a childhood memory, where you brought home a report card with a B on it, and it just wasn't good enough for your parents. That's the kind of stuff that will stick with a person for life, because their heart-belief was damaged through performance-based rejection.

Truth-based negative emotions

While nearly all negative emotions are lie based (depression, fear, etc.), there are two emotions that are negative but truth based. These emotions are sadness and anger Jesus Himself experienced these two negative emotions. When a person loses a loved one and experiences sadness, or maybe they saw an injustice and became angry those are truth-based forms of these emotions. Anger held on to is not a truth-based emotion. The Bible tells us to be angry but sin not, and not to let the sun go down on our anger. The reason that anger is formed is not the reason that it's held onto years later. Sadness can also be contaminated or surrounded by lie based negative emotions. The goal is to deal with the lie-based pain, and then when pure sadness or anger is left, give it to Jesus and ask Him to carry it. He will carry both sadness and truth based anger. If you try to get truth on sadness or anger in their pure truth-based forms, you won't get an answer because it's not lie-based. You need to get healing for these emotions differently Jesus is there to carry them and take them from us if we will give them to Him.

The four basic components of healing

So far I have explained some of the roots of bondage, but never gave you a structure to go by. There is a very simple structure that I like to follow when doing this type of ministry. It is broken down into four components, which could be spelled out M-E-L-T.

M - Memory(s) where it happened

E - Emotion that you are feeling

L - Lie(s) that you believe which keep you feeling the pain

T - Truth which the Holy Spirit wants to speak into you

Often I find that recognizing the emotion is the first step, then go back to the memories where you felt the same feeling (try to go back to the oldest or strongest memory you can find), then while feeling the emotion, ask what you really believe which is causing this emotion. Once you get to that place, you need to own the lie, and take it before Jesus to get His perspective on it.

The Holy Spirit is eager to speak!

One of the most popular lies that we have been fed, is that God doesn't want to speak to us personally. Nothing could be further from the truth! A lot of people have self-worth issues that are hangups when it comes to hearing from God. You need to ask yourself, "What is it that I believe about God speaking to me?" Many times if we are honest with ourselves, the answer might sound like this: "God won't speak to me, because I'm not special enough or I'm a nobody. He has more important people to speak to!" A lot of sincere Christians actually believe garbage like this! Jesus made it clear that even the children are to come unto Him, and talk with Him freely (see Matthew 19:14). There are plenty of scriptures that make it clear that God is not only willing, but desires to speak to us, and expects us to hear from Him on a regular bases. This is true for ALL of God's children. Do you have a child that you never speak to? Do you honestly expect to have a relationship with somebody that you never talk to? Yet today many Christians are shocked when they hear God's voice for the first time. Jesus made it clear that His sheep will hear His voice:

"My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:"
John 10:27 KJV

You have to have some really twisted beliefs if you think that Jesus doesn't want to speak to you about your deepest hurts and painful beliefs in your heart. You really have to have some distorted belief system in place to honest stand there and think, "God doesn't care about me enough to speak to me about my deepest hurts!" Sometimes we need to stop and ask people what they believe about God speaking to them. Is there a reason why He shouldn't speak to His child who Christ has given His life for? Do you see the self-worth issue I'm putting my finger on here?!? Yet this is a common problem in the church today and it keeps many from even talking to God and listening for His reply.

Sometimes there are fears such as, "What if the Holy Spirit doesn't speak to me?" Then folks, we need to figure out what hangup we have on our end, because the Bible is clear that He is eager to speak to us and lead us into all truth. We're not asking for a million dollars here, we're asking good honest heart-belief questions and need desperately His answer. Do you think that a good and loving God would withhold from such an opportunity? Would you withhold if your child came to you with their deepest wounds and wanted to talk about them? Of course not! Then how much more does God want to speak to us and bring us deep healing to our most painful and damaged areas in our hearts!

"If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not and it shall be given him."
James 1:5, KJV

"For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly."
Psalm 84:11, KJV

"Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?"
Matthew 7:9-11, KJV

The Holy Spirit is more eager to speak to you than you realize He is just waiting for you to ask and then listen for His reply!


This is a multi-part teaching!

  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part One
    Healing your deepest wounds
    We choose to construct our walls
    The Holy Spirit is our counselor
    Logical belief vs experiential belief
    The role of our emotions
    Our pain is rarely rooted in the present
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Two
    Our beliefs are the root of the pain
    A lie believed, will FEEL true!
    Truth-based negative emotions
    The four basic components of healing
    The Holy Spirit is eager to speak!
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Three
    Why go to the memory?
    Owning the lie is crucial
    The victim mentality roadblock
    Lies vs conclusions
    The Holy Spirit always has the answer!
    Things that will keep us from hearing
    Knowing the Holy Spirit's voice
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Four
    What made you angry is not what keeps you angry
    Guilt will prolong grief
    Dealing with sin-based pain
    Dealing with addictions
    Verifying if the healing is genuine
    The cost of healing
    The role of the minister
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Five
    Asking the right questions
    Deliberately withholding the truth
    The minister's own issues
    Other practical applications
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Six
    Why I love this ministry approach
    Where to go from here
    What about casting out demons?
    Some closing thoughts

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Holy Spirit Counseling
Healing your deepest wounds

Breaking Addictions
Get the root for real freedom

What to do with our feelings
Fear, guilt, shame, etc.

The Accusing Spirit
The voice of condemnation

How to overcome rejection
Correcting a mistaken identity

The Anti-self Bondages
Self-hate, self-rejection, etc.

Pillars of Inner Healing
Position yourself for healing

Defense Mechanisms
A huge key to inner healing

Inner Healing 101
Healing emotional wounds

Will God forgive me?
Advice from the Holy Spirit

Is God upset with me?
One of Satan's biggest lies

Exposing dead religion
#1 enemy of the cross!

Steps to inner healing

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Who we REALLY are
Our identity in Christ

Forgiving Yourself

It's vital to love yourself!
It's not what you think!

Emotional buildup
Easily offended? Irritable?

Opening demonic doors
Even with your thoughts...

Guilt & shame from sexual sins
Why are they so embarrassing?

Our Direct Enemy
Satan? Or demons?

Identifying strongholds

Keys to Biblical Faith

Resist the devil and he'll flee
Exposing a misinterpretation

Spiritual Warfare vs. Torment

What's on your mind?
Where the battle is fought

Spiritual Warfare

Dealing with Guilt

The power of your thoughts
Where many strongholds begin

Condemnation vs. Conviction
Feeling like a failure? Guilty?

Strongholds

Anti-stronghold Bible verses

The unpardonable sin


Salvation essentials




Wicked made for punishment?
A closer look at Proverbs 16:4

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Message of Salvation

Why we need Jesus

Salvation in the Bible


The Christian life




Why I am not Post-trib
With solid Biblical evidence

Bearing Kingdom Fruit
What is our personal role?

Doing the WORKS of God
The works JESUS did!!

The fear of the Lord
It's not what you think!

Communion and Judgment
Exposing a misunderstanding

Prosperity Gospel
Is it Biblical to be blessed?

God's will on earth
Just as it is in heaven??

How God sees us
An important key to faith!

Importance of Holiness
Two kinds of righteousness

Once-saved, Always-saved?
Or just false security?

Will God forgive me?
Advice from the Holy Spirit

Is God upset with me?
One of Satan's biggest lies

Exposing dead religion
#1 enemy of the cross!

The Jesus of the Bible

God's authority in the family

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Who we REALLY are
Our identity in Christ

Forgiving Yourself

Ambassadors for Christ
Jesus' ministry today!

It's vital to love yourself!
It's not what you think!

Emotional buildup
Easily offended? Irritable?

"But nobody is perfect!"
Let's grow into perfection!

The 10 Commandments
What if we reversed them?

Guilt & shame from sexual sins
Why are they so embarrassing?

Abortion & spiritual bondage

The Root of Bitterness

A Thankful Heart 1
A key to overflowing joy!

A Thankful Heart 2
Recognizing unthankfulness

A Thankful Heart 3
How to become thankful

Beauty of Repentance
Come clean before God!

Delayed Repentance
The cost of waiting

Jesus... Son of Man
He was our example!

The dangers of rebellion
A doorway to the demonic

Keys to Biblical Faith

A Love Relationship w/Jesus
A powerful revelation!

John the Baptist
Prepare the way for the Lord!

Dealing with Guilt

Blessing Confessions

Condemnation vs. Conviction
Feeling like a failure? Guilty?

The forgiveness of sins
Very liberating teaching!!

Forgiven sinner or saint?
How the power of sin is broken

The two commandments

Forgiveness & reconciliation

Unforgiveness: Poison

Sex Outside Marriage


The Holy Spirit




The loving Holy Spirit
He loves you dearly!

Baptism of the Holy Spirit


Divine healings




Worthy to Receive Healing

12 Vital Keys to Healing
Jesus healed them ALL!

God's will when prayer fails
More on God's will to heal

Live a LONG life!
Live out your full years

Pauls thorn & healing
And other arguments...

Biblical faith & healing

Dissociative Identity Disorder
Multiple Personality Disorder

Can you lose a healing?

God's will to heal

Divine Healing

Your Spiritual Authority


The Word of God




The Mark 16:9-20 debate


Spiritual Warfare Series




The battle in your mind

Combating temptation

Combating deception

Combating accusations

Tear down strongholds

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Christian have a demon?


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