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Get the root for real freedom

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The fear of the Lord
It's not what you think!

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More on God's will to heal

What to do with our feelings
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The Accusing Spirit
The voice of condemnation

Prosperity Gospel
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How to overcome rejection
Correcting a mistaken identity

The basic deliverance process
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Live a LONG life!
Live out your full years

Wicked made for punishment?
A closer look at Proverbs 16:4

God's will on earth
Just as it is in heaven??

How God sees us
An important key to faith!

Importance of Holiness
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The Anti-self Bondages
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Once-saved, Always-saved?
Or just false security?

Pillars of Inner Healing
Position yourself for healing

Defense Mechanisms
A huge key to inner healing

Removing Demonic Houses
To bring lasting freedom

Inner Healing 101
Healing emotional wounds

Moral Frailty Demons
Don't write off sex demons!

Will God forgive me?
Advice from the Holy Spirit

Is God upset with me?
One of Satan's biggest lies

Exposing dead religion
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The Jesus of the Bible

Pauls thorn & healing
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Steps to inner healing

Dissociative Identity Disorder
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Anti-deliverance questions
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The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Who we REALLY are
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Deliverance Prep 101
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Forgiving Yourself

Flesh and Demons
They work together

Message of Salvation

Touching dead bodies
and spiritual defilement

Praying out demons
CAST them out instead!

Ambassadors for Christ
Jesus' ministry today!

Haunted Homes & Land
Demons inhabiting property

Ready for deliverance?
How to tell if they are ready

Preaching the FULL gospel
It includes casting out demons!

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Example of demons at work
How demons kill, steal & destroy

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We need to be asking these!

Religious Spirits

Deliverance Prep 101
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They work together

Touching dead bodies
and spiritual defilement

Praying out demons
CAST them out instead!

Haunted Homes & Land
Demons inhabiting property

Ready for deliverance?
How to tell if they are ready

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It includes casting out demons!

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Opening demonic doors
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Holy Spirit Counseling - Part 1 of 6



Home > Heart-level Emotional Healing

Healing your deepest wounds

Have you ever wanted to truly break free from the chains of emotional baggage from your past? Were you abused as a child, and it seemed to have scarred your life forever? Many people, even with professional counseling never get the healing and freedom that God intended for us. Do you honestly think that God wants us to struggle through life because of the things which happened to us? Absolutely not! So why are so many Christians struggling with the same issues over and over again throughout their entire life? Why do we have to forgive so-and-so over and over again, and every time she pulls our trigger, we have to make the choice to forgive her once again. The problem never really goes away, it is just suppressed. Is this the king of victory Jesus wanted us to experience? Absolutely not.

I like to get to the root of things and understand what is really going on in that person's situation so the real problem can be solved. A good bandaid just doesn't do the job for me I'm not satisfied with temporary fixes. I want real answers that really work! I want the people I minister with to experience breakthrough that changes their life and doesn't keep coming back. I don't want you to have to forgive your offender 100 times and still be triggered every time he says the wrong thing. I want you to stop wishing you could love those who wrong you, but to actually start feeling compassion and love for them, and having the genuine desire to pray God's will into their lives and feel it in your heart. We all wish we could do that for those who hurt us, but few of us really experience that level of transformation in our hearts. The type of ministry work of the Holy Spirit that I am about to share with you in this teaching is the most life-changing type of ministry approach that I have ever seen. The Holy Spirit wants to heal your deepest wounds so you can live in effortless victory and genuine healing.

We choose to construct our walls

You are in the emotional mess you're in because of choices you've made because of beliefs held sometimes deep with your heart. You may have chosen to put up a wall which blocks you from receiving love because you've been hurt and your heart believes that putting up a wall will keep your heart safe from being hurt again. The reality is that it doesn't work. Your wall doesn't keep you from getting hurt it only keeps you from freely receiving love as God intended. It's only through receiving the love of God in your heart can be in that safe place that God intended it to be in.

"Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands thy walls are continually before me."
Isaiah 49:16, KJV

When we build such walls, we choose to hinder our ability to freely receive love, and the single greatest need that we have (the need to be loved) will not be met (at least in the capacity God intended), and out of that lack of our greatest need being fulfilled, all sorts of emotional and life problems will arise. Almost all addictions, for example, are rooted in our need to be loved not being fulfilled. Our capacity to receive love is hindered by these walls which we have constructed which were meant to protect our heart, but actually cause all sorts of other problems. I have often said that if Satan can keep our God-given needs from being met God's way, we become vulnerable to seeking out alternate ways to meet those needs. Sin for that matter, is usually just a vain attempt to manage our emotional pain and lack of fulfillment. Why do we lash out at somebody when they say the wrong thing? We are making them pay for what somebody else did to us years ago as a child. When we fail to love others, we have fallen into sin, because Jesus commanded us to love one another. However, if our own need to be loved isn't being met, because of the walls we have constructed in our hearts, it will be difficult to love others because we really can't freely give something we aren't receiving ourselves.

Do you want to live the life that God intended for you to walk in? Do you want to freely love others as Jesus commanded? Then you'll need to work on those walls in your heart, which are hindering your own need for love from being fulfilled. A heart that is not regularly receiving and fully aware of the love of God, is a heart that will not be emotionally healthy, and therefore that person will be prone to struggle with sin as a vain attempt to meet their God-given need to receive and experience His love.

Here's where the problem lies, we often can't just let down our walls because whether or not we realize it, we believe that our wall is doing something for us (protecting us from getting hurt), and until that belief that our wall is protecting us, it will be difficult to just let it go. This is why so many people cannot let go of their anger is because what they don't realize is that their anger is doing something for them. The key to letting our walls down, is finding out what they are doing for us, and getting truth on them. Until we debunk the lies which cause us to hold on to our walls, we may find it very difficult to truly let go and experience the freedom that God intended.

The Holy Spirit is our counselor

I have recently took on a new approach to inner healing ministry, and I don't think I will ever be doing ministry quite the same way. The process is very simple, yet can bring some of the deepest level of healing that I've ever seen. The foundation of this type of ministry is based on these important scriptures:

"But the Comforter [in newer translations they call Him the counselor], which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you."
John 14:26 KJV

"Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come."
John 16:13 KJV

When I traditionally addressed inner healing ministry, I would give great advise, good scriptures, and try to break away at faulty thinking patterns in the person I was ministering to. Now my focus is to get the person in a place where they can receive counsel directly from the Holy Spirit, who speaks to their heart and not just their head. While I can change what you logically believe, it is the Holy Spirit that can change what you believe experientially.

Logical belief vs experiential belief

Have you ever known something to be true but just didn't feel like it was true? Like for example, let's say you were struggling with feeling forgiven and loved by God you knew from scripture that God loves you and forgives you, but somehow you just don't feel like that is true. Your emotions tell you otherwise. You struggle feeling like you are not loved or forgiven, but yet you know it's just not true. Most of us have struggled with something that we know in our minds is not true, but in our hearts we sure feel like it's true (that is, if we are honest with ourselves). Did you know that you can hold two opposing beliefs at the same time? Did you know that you can believe one thing in your mind such as "God supplies all my needs" yet the minute you lose your job start having a panic attack? Or no matter how many times you're told that you are forgiven (and quoted all the great scriptures), you still question or wonder if you really are? That is because what you believe in your mind (logical belief) is not always the same thing that your heart believes because of what you have experienced. A good counselor can deal with what you logically believe and work through your issues on a head-level, but the Holy Spirit will work with you on a heart-level, and that makes a world of difference. I'm not saying counselors are ineffective and worthless, but there are many times they only scratch the surface and bring limited healing God wants to bring deep level healing and complete restoration in that person's heart. True and genuine healing at the heart level brings lasting freedom and effortless victory for that individual.

The role of our emotions

The western mind has really put many of us at a disadvantage. Many times we are told to deny our emotions, that our emotions can lie, or that we just can't go by our feelings. I disagree. Our emotions tell us our our heart really believes to be true. If our heart believes we are not good enough to be loved by God, that's exactly how we will feel, even if we know better in our mind. When a child is taught that it's unacceptable to cry or show or even feel emotion, they are being taught to bury their pain, and that is very dangerous emotionally. We all need to be real about how we feel. Not that we should ever use our emotions to manipulate others, or that we should go around wearing our feelings on our sleeves, thus making others feel like they are walking on egg shells. None of that is healthy, but it is very important that we be real with ourselves about how we feel. Denying our feelings only suppresses our problems, and serves as a hindrance from us getting getting healed.

Our emotions are the bridge to the brief that we hold which keeps us in pain they tell us accurately what it is our heart really believes.

Our pain is rarely rooted in the present

When somebody triggers us, it is rarely them who is causing the pain we are experiencing. It is rather that they are rubbing against a painful wound in our past. If a boss tells you that your work just isn't good enough, it would have very little effect if you didn't already believe that you weren't good enough. If your parents made you feel ashamed of a B report card as a kid, you may go through life believing that you aren't good enough, and when somebody comes along and rubs that wound, it will be 10X more painful than if you didn't have that pre-existing belief about yourself. I hope that makes sense.

If somebody tells us we're stupid and we know in our heart that we're not, their words will have little meaning to us. If we already believe that we're stupid in our heart (even though we know in our head that we're not), then somebody comes along and speaks the lie that we already believe in our heart, that will trigger us. We're here trying to deny that awful perceived fact, and how dare somebody comes up to us and tell us something that we're already struggling with!

Rarely our present pain is caused by the present condition. The present condition is almost always triggering something we already believe about ourself or about God because of past experiences.


This is a multi-part teaching!

  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part One
    Healing your deepest wounds
    We choose to construct our walls
    The Holy Spirit is our counselor
    Logical belief vs experiential belief
    The role of our emotions
    Our pain is rarely rooted in the present
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Two
    Our beliefs are the root of the pain
    A lie believed, will FEEL true!
    Truth-based negative emotions
    The four basic components of healing
    The Holy Spirit is eager to speak!
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Three
    Why go to the memory?
    Owning the lie is crucial
    The victim mentality roadblock
    Lies vs conclusions
    The Holy Spirit always has the answer!
    Things that will keep us from hearing
    Knowing the Holy Spirit's voice
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Four
    What made you angry is not what keeps you angry
    Guilt will prolong grief
    Dealing with sin-based pain
    Dealing with addictions
    Verifying if the healing is genuine
    The cost of healing
    The role of the minister
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Five
    Asking the right questions
    Deliberately withholding the truth
    The minister's own issues
    Other practical applications
  • Holy Spirit Counselor - Part Six
    Why I love this ministry approach
    Where to go from here
    What about casting out demons?
    Some closing thoughts

Live in the Dallas / Fort Worth area? Looking to get trained for some of the deepest emotional healing available?

You'll want to sign up for Cross Counsel's Transformational Living class, which starts in Feb 2017

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Looking for a seriously deep but brief teaching on the rapture and the upcoming tribulation?

Here is a 45 minute audio teaching by Pastor John Crable, a good friend of mine in the ministry. If you ever wondered whether you're pre-trib, post-trib, or mid-trib, you have got to listen to this!

Rapture Teaching (MP3)


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Holy Spirit Counseling
Healing your deepest wounds

Breaking Addictions
Get the root for real freedom

What to do with our feelings
Fear, guilt, shame, etc.

The Accusing Spirit
The voice of condemnation

How to overcome rejection
Correcting a mistaken identity

The Anti-self Bondages
Self-hate, self-rejection, etc.

Pillars of Inner Healing
Position yourself for healing

Defense Mechanisms
A huge key to inner healing

Inner Healing 101
Healing emotional wounds

Will God forgive me?
Advice from the Holy Spirit

Is God upset with me?
One of Satan's biggest lies

Exposing dead religion
#1 enemy of the cross!

Steps to inner healing

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Who we REALLY are
Our identity in Christ

Forgiving Yourself

It's vital to love yourself!
It's not what you think!

Emotional buildup
Easily offended? Irritable?

Opening demonic doors
Even with your thoughts...

Guilt & shame from sexual sins
Why are they so embarrassing?

Our Direct Enemy
Satan? Or demons?

Identifying strongholds

Keys to Biblical Faith

Resist the devil and he'll flee
Exposing a misinterpretation

Spiritual Warfare vs. Torment

What's on your mind?
Where the battle is fought

Spiritual Warfare

Dealing with Guilt

The power of your thoughts
Where many strongholds begin

Condemnation vs. Conviction
Feeling like a failure? Guilty?

Strongholds

Anti-stronghold Bible verses

The unpardonable sin


Salvation essentials




Wicked made for punishment?
A closer look at Proverbs 16:4

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Message of Salvation

Why we need Jesus

Salvation in the Bible


The Christian life




Why I am not Post-trib
With solid Biblical evidence

Bearing Kingdom Fruit
What is our personal role?

Doing the WORKS of God
The works JESUS did!!

The fear of the Lord
It's not what you think!

Communion and Judgment
Exposing a misunderstanding

Prosperity Gospel
Is it Biblical to be blessed?

God's will on earth
Just as it is in heaven??

How God sees us
An important key to faith!

Importance of Holiness
Two kinds of righteousness

Once-saved, Always-saved?
Or just false security?

Will God forgive me?
Advice from the Holy Spirit

Is God upset with me?
One of Satan's biggest lies

Exposing dead religion
#1 enemy of the cross!

The Jesus of the Bible

God's authority in the family

The Blood is Enough
Complete forgiveness!!

Who we REALLY are
Our identity in Christ

Forgiving Yourself

Ambassadors for Christ
Jesus' ministry today!

It's vital to love yourself!
It's not what you think!

Emotional buildup
Easily offended? Irritable?

"But nobody is perfect!"
Let's grow into perfection!

The 10 Commandments
What if we reversed them?

Guilt & shame from sexual sins
Why are they so embarrassing?

Abortion & spiritual bondage

The Root of Bitterness

A Thankful Heart 1
A key to overflowing joy!

A Thankful Heart 2
Recognizing unthankfulness

A Thankful Heart 3
How to become thankful

Beauty of Repentance
Come clean before God!

Delayed Repentance
The cost of waiting

Jesus... Son of Man
He was our example!

The dangers of rebellion
A doorway to the demonic

Keys to Biblical Faith

A Love Relationship w/Jesus
A powerful revelation!

John the Baptist
Prepare the way for the Lord!

Dealing with Guilt

Blessing Confessions

Condemnation vs. Conviction
Feeling like a failure? Guilty?

The forgiveness of sins
Very liberating teaching!!

Forgiven sinner or saint?
How the power of sin is broken

The two commandments

Forgiveness & reconciliation

Unforgiveness: Poison

Sex Outside Marriage


The Holy Spirit




The loving Holy Spirit
He loves you dearly!

Baptism of the Holy Spirit


Divine healings




Worthy to Receive Healing

12 Vital Keys to Healing
Jesus healed them ALL!

God's will when prayer fails
More on God's will to heal

Live a LONG life!
Live out your full years

Pauls thorn & healing
And other arguments...

Biblical faith & healing

Dissociative Identity Disorder
Multiple Personality Disorder

Can you lose a healing?

God's will to heal

Divine Healing

Your Spiritual Authority


The Word of God




The Mark 16:9-20 debate


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The battle in your mind

Combating temptation

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Combating accusations

Tear down strongholds

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Break the power of sin

How to forgive others

Warfare vs bondage

Christian have a demon?


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